Thursday, June 25, 2009

UPDATE: Adoption Agency Closing

Our new agency called us and assured us that everything will run smoothly to getting our referral in a few weeks. Pat and I breathed a big sigh of relief and sent in our transfer fee pronto.

We're still expecting to be in the next batch of referrals and they should begin to arrive within the next 3 weeks.

In the meantime, we're going to spend some time with my folks at the beautiful Jersey Shore. I'm not sure how relaxed we'll be as we count down the days, but the sound of the waves, smell of saltwater in the air, and the feeling of sand between our toes, sounds like the best possible way to finish out this long long LONG wait!

Sharon

Wednesday, June 24, 2009

Yikes! Our Adoption Agency is Closing!

Wednesday, June 24, 2009 11:41 AM, EDT

Just when you thought you it would be smooth sailing to the end, we got notice that our Adoption Agency in Texas is closing at the end of the week! What does this all mean for the Fitzpatricks? We THINK it will mean that we have an additional $1500 transfer fee to pay but that the adoption will continue on course. We have a call in to the new adoption agency but they are apparently inundated with calls.

These past few months have been like the puzzle of our lives has been turned upside down and the pieces strewn. Last week it was with great relief that we could feel like we put the adoption piece into the middle and begin to surround it with other little ones to bring some order into our lives. But here again, the puzzle was upended and we are left wondering what in the world God has up his sleeves.

I say this, however, with confidence. We trust in our God for every aspect of our lives -- the ones that look good, and the ones that look bad. We KNOW that He is faithful and that HE will fit all of the pieces of our lives back together and we will be able to stand back at that time and say, "It is good."

Hopefully this is just a slight blip in the road. If not, we'll let you know!

Don't worry Grace, we won't give up on you! We'll scale every mountain to bring you home!

Sharon

Saturday, June 20, 2009

One month to referral!

Referrals/matches came out yesterday and would you believe, we missed the cutoff by ONE day! That means we are at the front of the line now but we'll have to wait about 4 weeks for someone to come and remove the rope and let us through so we can see our sweetie's face!

Thanks for visiting our blog, for signing our guestbook to encourage us, for helping us financially through Kingdom Kids, and for ultimately welcoming a little girl whose future would not be bright if it weren't for God placing her needs on our hearts.

4 weeks to go!! (and then 6-8 more! HA) What a summer!

Sharon

Monday, June 15, 2009

Goodness gracious we're getting SOOOO close!!

There seems to be a delay (possibly due to the Swine Flu Pandemic) in China releasing the next set of matches/referrals. But the delay is also making it look more likely that they may be covering more days which means we really really really have a shot at getting our referral soon!! It could be this week, or the next or the next!

Can you even imagine our excitement?!! We are checking an online site for info every day and hoping and praying that we will see our Grace's face soon! After waiting for so very long it's hard to throw our whole hearts into the pot of expectation but if it's not in the next few weeks, it will SURELY be in the following month.

Praying. . . hoping. . . holding our breaths . . . and praising God for allowing us to have GRACE for adoption!!

Sharon

Friday, June 5, 2009

China is now releasing Referrals!

Thursday, May 21, 2009 8:46 AM, CDT

China is now releasing Referrals (but not Travel Approvals)After I wrote yesterday's entry, referrals started to arrive in Europe! To be clear, this batch will not include us, but it will include dear friends of ours who have walked this entire journey with us. We can't wait to see the face of their little girl and share in their excitement!And then. . . .we may be next to get our referral (which would be 2 - 4 weeks)!!! Stay tuned. . . Sharon

What's the Holdup?

Wednesday, May 20, 2009 8:28 AM

Swine Flu is apparently holding up referrals because China has stopped sending out referrals or Travel Approvals. If they continue to match during this time - which is what they did during the SARS epidemic - we might be pleasantly surprised with a referral in June. If they have totally stopped matching, we are proverbally dead in the water until the situation gets resolved and who knows how long that could take. So we wait and continue to prepare for our little girl to come home.On the good news front, all of our paperwork is updated and we are good to go! We received something called our I171H yesterday which is our governernment's stamp of approval on our adoption. This was a big relief to us because it was nearly denied!Here's what happened: Our former I171H was set to expire on May 5 and we knew we had to submit a new 1600 form before that date (remember that big hullaballo a few months ago of the I600 vs the I800?). So we sent it in with a week to spare and the day before taking off on a short roadtrip (that would have taken us past the May 5 deadline) we received all of our paperwork back! They said we hadn't included enough money to cover new fingerprinting and could not process it without that or verification that we were grandfathered in to the old I600 system. Had this arrived the day following we would not have been able to resubmit and would have been in violation of "abandoning" our petition. This would have meant re-submitting under the I800 which would have meant re-doing our HomeStudy (which we had just done) and gathering way more documentation. I nearly went into a panic . . .but for God! He had our backs and allowed it to arrive in time to make the necessary corrections. By the way -- we did send in the extra $160 for fingerprinting even though we had already been fingerprinted in January and didn't need to go through that expense again. But this is the government and they kind of have us over a barrel so we forked over the money anyway. What can you do? So here we wait -- it's like we are circling in the air above China waiting to land to receive our referral and the pilot keeps saying, "We are sorry for the unknown delay. Please stay seated and make yourselves as comfortable as possible. As soon as we have approval to land, we'll let you know." As soon as we know that we're out of the holding pattern -- we'll let you know :-) Thanks for your prayers and your support! Sharon